Sexting for OFM

Definition

OFM sexting refers to the exchange of intimate or sexual messages with a fan as part of chatting. It can be included in the standard interaction or sold as a premium service billed per message or as a package. Sexting is a major monetization lever, but also one of the most time-consuming and emotionally demanding tasks for chatters.

Concrete example

A VIP fan buys a 30-minute sexting session for $50. The chatter exchanges intimate messages in real time while staying true to the model's persona. At the end of the session, they offer a video piece "related to what we just talked about" as PPV for $40.

Best practices

Set clear pricing for sexting (per message, per session, or package). Always respect the limits defined during onboarding. Use sexting as a springboard to selling visual content (PPV). Never cut corners: quality sexting keeps the fan loyal.

Key figures

Average price: $1 to $5 per message or $30-$100 for a 15-30 minute session. Fans who engage in sexting spend on average 3 to 5 times more than others on PPV.

Common mistakes

Offering free sexting "to engage the fan." If the fan gets what they want for free, they have no reason to buy content.

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2. Who is Desirely for?

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3. Will AI replace my chatters?

Yes, it is possible, but that is not the goal. Desirely is designed to highlight a hybrid model: AI handles volume (discovery, follow-ups, qualification chats, simple sales of scripts and PPV, including price negotiation), and your chatters focus on high-value interactions (complex negotiations, managing big spenders, custom content). A human can step in at any time on any conversation.

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